Journal #3

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This week I found the whole ventral exposure very interesting. The idea of protecting yourself by covering you most sensitive areas during interactions felt like a very natural thing to do, I just didn't realize how much I did those things, nor how much we could really look into those different movements to decipher how someone is feeling. I read these chapters after working outside in my yard. It's been very hot here close to 100 at midday, so when I came inside I was hot and it was nice to feel the cool air. I grabbed the book, sat down on my couch and instinctively grabbed the blanket
to place over my lap. As I was reading I became very aware that the blanket was a form of security for me. I wasn't even close to cold, in fact I was hot, yet I felt more comfortable under that blanket. I became very aware of my stance and what nonverbal movements made me feel better when I was in a different situation. Crossing my arms, making myself feel small. It's amazing how much we do that can portray a whole story to someone that is willing to watch for it.

I have 2 coworkers that don't really like each other, they are really fun to watch interact now. How one will stiffen up when the others name is mentioned or if they come into the room. Little to no eye contact, in fact they go out of their way to not acknowledge each other. Leaning! There was so much leaning away that I observed I couldn't believe I hand't noticed it before. I've always enjoyed people watching but after this class I think it may become a hobby.


Observation #3

My location this week was at Flatbreadz located in the Las Vegas McCarren International airport.
While there was all sorts of nonverbal behavior pointing, smiling, scowls, looks of exhaustion I seemed to pay more attention to the torso and arms after reading chapter 4 & 5.  Those waiting at the front of the line (which was quite long) had their arms folded, most looking straight forward or if they had kids watching to make sure they didn't get into anything. Those at the back of the line still seemed more relaxed, arms down to the sides more smiles. There was more interaction with the people they were with at the very end of the line. Holding hands, more hand expressions while talking. By the time they got to the front of the line it was almost humorous to see how different how their posture changed and overall demeanor slumped. There were 18 different people that touched their hands to their heads in an agitated or tired state.

Those sitting seemed more relaxed, some leaning back in their seats and observing others, pointing to different objects in the room. I noticed a most people leaning inwardly during discussion and a lot of leaning away from people outside of their company. One particular woman was very relaxed in her chair until a family with children came and sat directly opposite of her and her friend. Instantly she sat up and began watching the children and the parents interact. Arms then folded and a disgusted look crossed her face as the children became loud or messy with their food. She made a slight movement towards the group to her friend and her friend turned and made almost the same look of disgust. Apparently they didn't like kids or noise?